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What is Bedwetting

Dispelling a Myth: There's No Such Thing as Night Training a Child

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Your toddler is taking an interest in using the potty, so you buy underwear adorned with his favorite characters and the potty training begins. In no time at all, he's using the toilet and staying dry throughout the day. “Hooray!” you think. "Potty training wasn’t that hard!"

Staying dry throughout the night shouldn’t be a problem. But after several weeks, your child continues to wake up wet. Months pass and he still wets the bed at night. This can create anxiety for your child about nighttime accidents and for you about how to fix the situation. What many don’t realize, however, is that it’s not potty training they’re dealing with, but rather bedwetting, which is an entirely different thing.

You and your child aren’t doing anything wrong. Nighttime wetting is a very normal thing and nothing that can be trained; it must be outgrown. In fact, approximately 7 million children age 3 and over still wet the bed in the U.S., according to the National Kidney Foundation. Nighttime wetting affects more boys than girls, and it’s strongly linked to genetics. Dr. Vincent Iannelli, pediatrician and Fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics, says that if one or both parents wet the bed, the child has up to a 77% higher chance of wetting the bed themselves. Most of the time, nighttime wetting happens simply because the child’s bladder control isn’t mature. Just as children develop fine motor skills and language skills at different rates, they develop bladder control on their own schedules as well.

So, how do you handle your child’s nighttime wetting? The fact that she wets the bed is not something to be overly concerned about, because she’ll grow out of it as her body matures. Nighttime wetting can leave a child feeling embarrassed and upset because she can’t stay dry through the night. Reinforce that it is not her fault by telling her she cannot stay dry through the night because her body hasn't matured yet and it is not a choice she makes. Responding negatively to your child’s wetting can damage self-esteem and even prolong wetting.

Instead of dwelling on it, take time to create calming bedtime routines that help ease the worries they may have of wetting the bed. Try providing your child with Goodnites® NightTime Underwear so he can stay dry while sleeping. This will keep you from having to change sheets every day, and it will help your child sleep comfortably through the night.

Always keep in mind that this stage will pass eventually. Yes, it is stressful and hard to accept when you can’t fix it. But in the meantime, don’t let nighttime wetting get in the way of childhood. Help them enjoy every moment of it by keeping them dry and worry-free.

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